Paul’s Concern for the Corinthians
Paul says the Corinthians drove him into foolishness when they should have commended him, for he is not inferior to the super-apostles even though he is nothing. The signs of a true apostle were done among them with perseverance, and the only way they were 'inferior' to other churches was that Paul refused to burden them.
I11 have become a fool, but you drove me to it. In fact, you should have commended me, since I am in no way inferior to those “super-apostles,” even though I am nothing. 12The marks of a true apostle — signs, wonders, and miracles — were performed among you with great perseverance. 13In what way were you inferior to the other churches, except that I was not a burden to you? Forgive me this wrong!
Paul says he is ready to come a third time and still will not burden them, because he seeks them, not their possessions, as a parent lays up for children. He will gladly spend himself for their souls, and he asks whether either he or Titus ever exploited them, insisting that they all walked in the same Spirit and steps.
14See, I am ready to come to you a third time, and I will not be a burden, because I am not seeking your possessions, but you. For children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children. 15And for the sake of your souls, I will most gladly spend my money and myself. If I love you more, will you love me less? 16Be that as it may, I was not a burden to you; but crafty as I am, I caught you by trickery. 17Did I exploit you by anyone I sent you? 18I urged Titus to visit you, and I sent our brother with him. Did Titus exploit you in any way? Did we not walk in the same Spirit and follow in the same footsteps?
Paul says all of this has been spoken before God in Christ for their upbuilding, not as a self-defense for its own sake. Yet he fears that when he comes he may find quarrels, jealousy, rage, slander, gossip, arrogance, disorder, and older sins of impurity and sexual immorality still unrepented, bringing him grief instead of joy.
19Have you been thinking all along that we were making a defense to you? We speak before God in Christ, and all of this, beloved, is to build you up. 20For I am afraid that when I come, I may not find you as I wish, and you may not find me as you wish. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, rage, rivalry, slander, gossip, arrogance, and disorder. 21I am afraid that when I come again, my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of their acts of impurity, sexual immorality, and debauchery.