Paul’s Fatherly Warning
Paul says he is not writing to shame them but to warn them as beloved children, because even if they have many guardians in Christ they do not have many fathers, and he became their father through the gospel. For that reason he urges them to imitate him and says he has sent Timothy, his faithful child in the Lord, to remind them of his way of life in Christ as taught everywhere in every church.
I14 am not writing this to shame you, but to warn you as my beloved children. 15Even if you have ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers; for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. 16Therefore I urge you to imitate me. 17That is why I have sent you Timothy, my beloved and faithful child in the Lord. He will remind you of my way of life in Christ Jesus, which is exactly what I teach everywhere in every church.
Some in Corinth have become arrogant as though Paul were not coming, but he says he will come soon if the Lord wills and will see not merely what these people say but what power they have. Since God's kingdom is not a matter of talk but of power, he leaves them with a choice about how he should arrive: with a rod, or in love and a gentle spirit.
18Some of you have become arrogant, as if I were not coming to you. 19But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord is willing, and then I will find out not only what these arrogant people are saying, but what power they have. 20For the kingdom of God is not a matter of talk but of power. 21Which do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and with a gentle spirit?